<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post960782545667895219..comments</id><updated>2009-11-02T00:30:32.911Z</updated><title type='text'>Comments on things mean a lot: Virginity or Death! by Katha Pollitt</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/feeds/960782545667895219/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html'/><author><name>Nymeth</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16092495983972185943</uri><email>untuneric@gmail.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>22</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-2411902815019214721</id><published>2009-11-02T00:30:32.911Z</published><updated>2009-11-02T00:30:32.911Z</updated><title type='text'>Chris, I think you would, yep :P These aren't dens...</title><content type='html'>Chris, I think you would, yep :P These aren&amp;#39;t dense at all either, promise! They&amp;#39;re as readable as it gets.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stephanie, these are right up your alley!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Zibilee: She&amp;#39;s very outspoken, but I kept thinking that someone&amp;#39;s got to be, you know?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Andi: I hope you enjoy it if you decide to pick it up! I go through phases where I don&amp;#39;t really read much that broadens my horizons either.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Naida: I always wish I could be like them :P&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ds, I hope you find it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Amy: It really is :(&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Alice, to each their own!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Avi: lol, isn&amp;#39;t it? :D&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sarah: That was definitely the case with these essays. And thank you for the recommendation! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Debi: *hugs*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stephanie: It&amp;#39;s just so good to find a book that makes me feel this way! I wish I had more friends like that :P</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/2411902815019214721'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/2411902815019214721'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1257121832911#c2411902815019214721' title=''/><author><name>Nymeth</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16092495983972185943</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='02220239905491948403'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-1390736990593396865</id><published>2009-10-23T01:11:41.725+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-23T01:11:41.725+01:00</updated><title type='text'>This sounds interesting and as usual, you've writt...</title><content type='html'>This sounds interesting and as usual, you&amp;#39;ve written an incredible review. I love this: &amp;quot;For me, reading Katha Pollitt is like talking to that one friend you always go to when you want to figure out how you feel about certain issues – even when you don’t completely agree, you know that the conversation will leave you feeling more enlightened.&amp;quot;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/1390736990593396865'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/1390736990593396865'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256256701725#c1390736990593396865' title=''/><author><name>Stephanie</name><uri>http://starkravingbibliophile.blogspot.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-1857013372982209661</id><published>2009-10-22T15:00:04.207+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-22T15:00:04.207+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks Ana, for sharing that. Now I've got the who...</title><content type='html'>Thanks Ana, for sharing that. Now I&amp;#39;ve got the whole mixture of smiles and tears thing going on here. I hope Dewey got to read it, too. I really, really do. *hugs*</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/1857013372982209661'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/1857013372982209661'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256220004207#c1857013372982209661' title=''/><author><name>Debi</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15429881953804634592</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-5294348785452371267</id><published>2009-10-22T12:39:29.754+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-22T12:39:29.754+01:00</updated><title type='text'>This sounds interesting, I find essays enjoyable a...</title><content type='html'>This sounds interesting, I find essays enjoyable as long as they provoke thought (if not agreement!). &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The abuse of so called comfort women  is shocking- if you&amp;#39;re interested in reading more about it I&amp;#39;d recommend Fifty Years of Silence  by Jan Ruff-O&amp;#39;Hearne, a memoir by an originally Dutch (now Australian) survivor of this.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/5294348785452371267'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/5294348785452371267'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256211569754#c5294348785452371267' title=''/><author><name>adevotedreader</name><uri>http://adevotedreader.wordpress.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-3337501696954403071</id><published>2009-10-22T05:28:52.121+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-22T05:28:52.121+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Great review, as usual! I love the quotes you incl...</title><content type='html'>Great review, as usual! I love the quotes you included, especially the first one. (&amp;quot;Insufficiently shaven of leg&amp;quot; is a great expression!)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/3337501696954403071'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/3337501696954403071'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256185732121#c3337501696954403071' title=''/><author><name>avisannschild</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12486477882148877317</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-4473057497674110787</id><published>2009-10-22T04:09:32.715+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-22T04:09:32.715+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm not so much of an essay person...</title><content type='html'>I&amp;#39;m not so much of an essay person...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/4473057497674110787'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/4473057497674110787'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256180972715#c4473057497674110787' title=''/><author><name>Alice Teh</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12623394887320093229</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-5669096097304333980</id><published>2009-10-22T02:30:00.784+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-22T02:30:00.784+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Sounds interesting..I don't typically read essays ...</title><content type='html'>Sounds interesting..I don&amp;#39;t typically read essays because they take a bit longer for me to read but i often want to.  And it&amp;#39;s terrible about the comfort women, huh?</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/5669096097304333980'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/5669096097304333980'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256175000784#c5669096097304333980' title=''/><author><name>Amy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02515314638093018928</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-8733994543309488412</id><published>2009-10-22T02:06:05.514+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-22T02:06:05.514+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Great review--three cheers for Katha Pollitt, thre...</title><content type='html'>Great review--three cheers for Katha Pollitt, three cheers for you! Will have to see if the library has this; it is definitely a &amp;quot;borrower&amp;quot;. Thanks, Nymeth!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/8733994543309488412'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/8733994543309488412'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256173565514#c8733994543309488412' title=''/><author><name>ds</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07616750784052488695</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-3044332012237949074</id><published>2009-10-22T02:05:05.851+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-22T02:05:05.851+01:00</updated><title type='text'>This sounds interesting, I admire people who are n...</title><content type='html'>This sounds interesting, I admire people who are not afraid to speak thier minds too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://thebookworm07.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://thebookworm07.blogspot.com/&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/3044332012237949074'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/3044332012237949074'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256173505851#c3044332012237949074' title=''/><author><name>naida</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10217390642323530030</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-6799676912325649290</id><published>2009-10-21T23:19:09.028+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T23:19:09.028+01:00</updated><title type='text'>This book sounds really interesting, and it sort o...</title><content type='html'>This book sounds really interesting, and it sort of makes me realize what a lazy reader I&amp;#39;ve been this year. I keep looking back over my list of reads for the year thinking, &amp;quot;Wow, very little of the memorable.&amp;quot; This is the type of book I used to read all the time, and now that I&amp;#39;m overtaken by brain drain most of the time, I&amp;#39;ve let some of that more challenging or enlightening reading go. Maybe I&amp;#39;ll try to amp up the quality for the rest of the year. Go me! And go you! Love your reviews, always!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/6799676912325649290'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/6799676912325649290'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256163549028#c6799676912325649290' title=''/><author><name>Andi</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05220718933942181809</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-8224271281521634030</id><published>2009-10-21T21:51:19.057+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T21:51:19.057+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I don't typically read books like this, but I like...</title><content type='html'>I don&amp;#39;t typically read books like this, but I like the fact that the author has strong opinions about these issues and since I am not really how close I fall into the liberal category, I think it would be interesting to see if I would agree with her views. Thanks for the insightful review on this one, it does sound really interesting.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/8224271281521634030'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/8224271281521634030'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256158279057#c8224271281521634030' title=''/><author><name>Zibilee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05857638467064749190</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09731619097789331084'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-3646228779027828877</id><published>2009-10-21T20:17:06.015+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T20:17:06.015+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm not really an essay person either, but I do li...</title><content type='html'>I&amp;#39;m not really an essay person either, but I do like the sound of this one.  If anything, political essays would be the ones I get the most out of.   I&amp;#39;ve had Pollitt&amp;#39;s last book on my TBR list since I read your other review!!  One of these days I&amp;#39;ll get to it!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/3646228779027828877'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/3646228779027828877'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256152626015#c3646228779027828877' title=''/><author><name>Stephanie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05055676171075203563</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-6498749053175367051</id><published>2009-10-21T18:52:34.886+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T18:52:34.886+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I normally don't do well with essays, but I think ...</title><content type='html'>I normally don&amp;#39;t do well with essays, but I think I might try this one out. It sounds like something that I&amp;#39;d scream &amp;quot;yes&amp;quot; at, you know? :p There&amp;#39;s something about essays, particular political essays that always gives me a problem!! I don&amp;#39;t know what it is..maybe they&amp;#39;re just too dense for me? Who knows...but I really should try this one!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/6498749053175367051'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/6498749053175367051'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256147554886#c6498749053175367051' title=''/><author><name>Chris</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05793512698366676453</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-3096435676576744753</id><published>2009-10-21T18:09:03.966+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T18:09:03.966+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I really should read what I write before I post it...</title><content type='html'>I really should read what I write before I post it :S Then I wouldn&amp;#39;t write &amp;quot;LOVE it for sure&amp;quot; twice in the same short paragraph.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/3096435676576744753'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/3096435676576744753'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256144943966#c3096435676576744753' title=''/><author><name>Nymeth</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16092495983972185943</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='02220239905491948403'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-4402835474133026242</id><published>2009-10-21T18:07:05.923+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T18:07:05.923+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Melody, you are too kind!

Debi: You will LOVE Pol...</title><content type='html'>Melody, you are too kind!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Debi: You will LOVE Pollitt for sure! (PS: A little story about this book - I got it via Bookmooch, and when you click to mooch a book they show you a little &amp;quot;history&amp;quot; of who mooched it before..and a few spots before my name was Dew&amp;#39;s :( I wonder if she got around to reading it. I hope so, because she&amp;#39;d LOVE it for sure.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sandy: I enjoy reading other viewpoints too! And lol, yes. She&amp;#39;s got sass for sure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jenny, I really think you&amp;#39;d enjoy this, then! Pollitt has a lot to say about what your president was up to then :P&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Eva: Would I be right to guess that you had several tabs open and somehow this comment ended up on the wrong window? :P I&amp;#39;m saying this because I&amp;#39;ve TOTALLY done that before, lol.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tracie Yule: The essay that quote is from is more about having children than getting married, but the same goes for both, definitely :/ She was responding to a &amp;quot;study&amp;quot; according to which women who decided not to have children would in their 50&amp;#39;s realize they&amp;#39;d wasted their lives :rolleyes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jeanne: How great that you met her! And it&amp;#39;s interesting to know that she sounds just like her writing.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/4402835474133026242'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/4402835474133026242'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256144825923#c4402835474133026242' title=''/><author><name>Nymeth</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16092495983972185943</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='02220239905491948403'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-269848053143538130</id><published>2009-10-21T17:02:09.405+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T17:02:09.405+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I met Pollit once at a conference in Washington D....</title><content type='html'>I met Pollit once at a conference in Washington D.C. and she came across just like her writing--brash and confident.  Although she&amp;#39;s physically very small, which was an interesting contrast, at least to me (I&amp;#39;m extremely tall).</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/269848053143538130'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/269848053143538130'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256140929405#c269848053143538130' title=''/><author><name>Jeanne</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01374498643286099244</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-2885495066901731599</id><published>2009-10-21T16:34:53.745+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T16:34:53.745+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Every once in awhile I'll read essays and they are...</title><content type='html'>Every once in awhile I&amp;#39;ll read essays and they are usually focused on some feminist issue.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love the quotes from the book, especially about how marriage for women is view differently than men.  For some reason, if women do not get married they are &amp;quot;missing&amp;quot; something while with men it&amp;#39;s a life choice. Wonderful point that I wish more girls realized and would look at.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/2885495066901731599'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/2885495066901731599'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256139293745#c2885495066901731599' title=''/><author><name>Tracie Yule</name><uri>http://www.yuletimereading.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-2574303700092483911</id><published>2009-10-21T15:18:22.202+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T15:18:22.202+01:00</updated><title type='text'>You're making me want to dive into the Victorians ...</title><content type='html'>You&amp;#39;re making me want to dive into the Victorians too! :D  I did just start Ruth yesterday (on CD), and as soon as I finish Byatt, I&amp;#39;ll be grabbing by Wilkie Collins Classic Circuit read! And I need to read North &amp;amp; South before it&amp;#39;s due, so I might be having a classicsfest too. :)  Is The Pillow Book long? It rather frightens me, lol, but if you end up enjoying it I&amp;#39;ll give it a go!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From all the reviews, I knew Julie &amp;amp; Julia the book wasn&amp;#39;t for me at all, but the MOVIE is marvelous. :)  What a neat opera commentary CD! I&amp;#39;ve been getting the straight-up operas from my library (the last one I listened to was Boris Gudonov-it was awesome!), but a commentary would be even better. :)  Since you enjoyed Better more than Complications, I can&amp;#39;t wait to get to it!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m reading The Children&amp;#39;s Book right now &amp;amp; it&amp;#39;s awesome! :D  And I read Howard&amp;#39;s Endin January and adored it! Way more than Room w/ a View. :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/2574303700092483911'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/2574303700092483911'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256134702202#c2574303700092483911' title=''/><author><name>Eva</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06703372903532502944</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-6637259663594384627</id><published>2009-10-21T14:28:08.078+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T14:28:08.078+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Hm, I am kind of in the mood for some political es...</title><content type='html'>Hm, I am kind of in the mood for some political essays.  This sounds good - and 2001-2005 was about when I was gaining political consciousness (sadly it was because our president was steady being awful), so I should enjoy these.  Yay, fun!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/6637259663594384627'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/6637259663594384627'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256131688078#c6637259663594384627' title=''/><author><name>Jenny</name><uri>http://jennysbooks.wordpress.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-160509452831277744</id><published>2009-10-21T13:18:08.589+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T13:18:08.589+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm not an essay person either, and I can't say I'...</title><content type='html'>I&amp;#39;m not an essay person either, and I can&amp;#39;t say I&amp;#39;m overly liberal, but I&amp;#39;m totally open to other viewpoints.  I&amp;#39;m always curious to know every side of a story, so I can formulate informed opinions of my own.  I also don&amp;#39;t mind a little sass, which it sounds like she has!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/160509452831277744'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/160509452831277744'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256127488589#c160509452831277744' title=''/><author><name>Sandy Nawrot</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00564390728106776030</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='14546812100806982324'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-5098298654633241021</id><published>2009-10-21T13:15:20.046+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T13:15:20.046+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Right to the library website for me...I want to re...</title><content type='html'>Right to the library website for me...I want to read this soooooo much! I love that last quote. Love it. And I just KNOW I&amp;#39;m going to love this book. Thanks, Nymeth!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/5098298654633241021'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/5098298654633241021'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256127320046#c5098298654633241021' title=''/><author><name>Debi</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15429881953804634592</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-3565795049400767037</id><published>2009-10-21T11:56:04.348+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T11:56:04.348+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Great review, Nymeth! I'm not really a fan of essa...</title><content type='html'>Great review, Nymeth! I&amp;#39;m not really a fan of essays but I really enjoyed reading your review. You write so well! :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/3565795049400767037'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/960782545667895219/comments/default/3565795049400767037'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html?showComment=1256122564348#c3565795049400767037' title=''/><author><name>Melody</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03967837585961009598</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='02850836272334940170'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.thingsmeanalot.com/2009/10/virginity-or-death-by-katha-pollitt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7069484.post-960782545667895219' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7069484/posts/default/960782545667895219' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>