Apr 26, 2015

Sunday Update: Life, &c

St Paul's Cathedral
Good morning, everyone. I imagine some of you will be recovering from the Readathon today — sadly I couldn’t take part this time around, as it fell on a weekend when I had to work. I can’t really complain, though, because yesterday work involved hosting a visit from two brilliant authors who made the kids in my reading group extremely happy (and me as well). Also, there are other exciting work things happening that I’ll get to be directly involved in: school visits, a local picture book award ceremony, a children’s book festival, and a fancy dress event celebrating 150 years of Alice in Wonderland (I’ll get to be the Queen of Hearts!).

I always want to tell you about these things in as much detail as I tell you about all the bookish events I go to in a non-professional capacity, but at the same time, I want to keep the current disconnect between my library and blogging identities as it is. In a way this is a hindrance to my professional development, but experience has shown it to be necessary. You might have noticed that I’m always a bit vague even when I post pictures and the like — this is not to be annoyingly coy, but because there are well-documented drawbacks to how exposed you are as a woman working in a busy public space. Obviously I don’t think this is inevitable; it’s simply a result of how the world is currently organised. But for as long as it remains the case, I have to find ways to manage the vulnerabilities of having a visible online presence, especially in a space where I’ve been fairly open for over eight years now. Not using my last name and being vague about my location are not things that would necessarily hold up to close scrutiny, but they do give me some peace of mind. All this to say: it frustrates me not to tell you more about my library work, especially as it’s a big part of my life these days and it touches on things readers of this blog are likely to be interested in, but so far I haven’t found a way to do it and continue to feel safe online.

In other life news, I’ve been out and about quite a lot this month — my parents came to visit me and we had a really nice day out in London, which was when I took the picture above. The weather has been mostly good, I’m cycling to work again, and every day I’m reminded that as unlikely as this feels around mid-January, spring and summer do come again. Speaking of summer, much of last week was devoted to making travel plans. I’ve already mentioned that this year I’ll get to go back to Edinburgh and catch the last few days of the Fringe and Book festivals; in addition to that, at the end of September I’m going to Barcelona and Madrid for a week (a week split between the two places, that is; sadly not a week in each). I’ve never been before, so if you have any tips as to what to see, especially bookish places, I’d absolutely love to hear them.


Spring!

Reading-wise, I’m halfway through Elizabeth Wein’s Black Dove, White Raven and haven’t picked it up in a week — not because it’s not a good book but because my attention has been all over the place. But I look forward to going back to it, as well as to all the exciting book releases May has in store for us. Frances Hardinge’s The Lie Tree! Naomi Novik’s Uprooted! I can’t wait. May also marks the end of the TBR dare for me, which... I guess I’ll have to update you about that. Expect a post of shame in the near future.

The Wire progress report: still love it; kind of want to write about representations of masculinity in the series even though I’m sure there are already a million things out there much smarter and better written than anything I could come up with.

I’ll leave you with a few links I’ve been meaning to share:

  • A very good post on a topic forever close to my heart: How do we get more boys reading? (Clue: ‘boy books’ aren’t the answer.):
    The idea that boys need gender specific books accepts and reinforces all the same old assumptions about boys and girls – that gender dictates personality and interests. How many examples of girls who love football or boys who love fashion do we need before people stop telling children that these are boys or girls things?
    Would adding the words ‘For Boys’ to the front of a book really make a boy who’s interested in, say, robots, be any more likely to pick it up than if it said ‘for Roboteers’? Targeting by interest is surely a more logical approach that excludes no-one and also encourages children of different genders to appreciate shared interests.
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    Labelling a book ‘for boys’ doesn’t only exclude girls. There are many ways to be a boy. What about the reluctant boy reader who likes ballet? Where might he find a book that isn’t pink and sparkly and screams ‘for girls’? And as Mark Jennett asks, “Why don’t people worry more about the reluctant girl reader who is more interested in dinosaurs than princesses but is constantly informed by books in the library that dinosaurs are not for her?”
  • On the off chance you’re not tired of hearing me go on about Carol Danvers, I wrote a post for Book Bloggers International about my favourite female characters in comics. Guess who makes an appearance?

    Carol Danvers and Kit

  • Last Carol link, I promise: Pre-Schoolers meet Captain Marvel. D’awwww.

  • Report finds UK books world has marginalised and pigeonholed ethnic minorities.

  • This year’s Tiptree Award winners, honour list, and long list have been announced! As you might remember, I adored My Real Children; I need to read The Girl on the Road soon.
  • 19 comments:

    1. Even as a library assistant, I don't talk about my job much either online. My full name is out there (out here) now, but it wasn't always. With the advent of Facebook and Google Plus, I decided to come out from behind the mask, so to speak and there's really no turning back now. Unfortunately, I remember a few years ago a woman who wrote a book about the small town library, much like one where I work, where she worked and then getting fired because patrons were recognizable in the book. I had a humorous anonymous blog about my job as a library assistant for a while, but I even took that down in case it ever was traced back to me. I didn't want anyone to think I was making fun of the patrons, which I wasn't. I just found some of the situations humorous...and some not so humorous, but such is working in a library anymore and maybe always - a mixture of the humorous and not so humorous. I'd say more but I don't want to breach any confidentiality. :)

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      1. There are lots of library situations you have to laugh about or else you'll cry! But of course it's different to do that privately or anonymously versus having people recognize themselves and feel bad. I don't think anyone would ever want that.

        95% of the people I deal with on a daily basis are lovely, but then there's the other 5%. I can think of a few patrons in particular who I really, really wouldn't want to look at this blog - if that ever happened, I'd honestly want to delete it. Not because it says anything about them, but because of personal boundaries being crossed. So that's been my main struggle - keeping this side of my life private. That might seem like a strange word to use for a blog that's publicly available for anyone to read, but it feels different having strangers online read it or having people who have shown me unwanted attention in person and who know where to find me every day because I work in a public space and can't remove myself from it come across it. I hope that makes sense.

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      2. Completely agree about the 95 percent. Unfortunately, or maybe just the way it is, one of my jobs is also dealing with making phone calls and sending out bills for overdues, so sometimes easy to focus on that 5 percent. Most of our patrons probably aren't going to see my blog, but if they do, I don't want anything to be misconstrued, why I normally don't talk about my job at the library, except if I find a good book there, of course.

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    2. As always it is wonderful to hear about the goings on in your life. I keep blogging and life pretty separate as well. As a literature professor, you would think I would mix the two, but for me, the pressure to be "academic" would drive the pleasure out of my blog which I've always considered to be much, much less formal and intellectual.

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      1. Do you read Novel Readings? Rohan's posts about blogging as an academic are always really insightful.

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    3. Hi Ana, thanks for sharing these interesting bits about your life! I agree with what you say on anonymity. I don't exactly keep my blog a secret, but I don't mention it to anyone at work, and so far no-one has found me out (I think) ;-). My reasons are a bit different from yours, because my job is less public (I don't have "clients", strictly speaking), but I don't want to be judged by my professional environment for having a blog or for what I say on it.
      On another note, if you're going to Madrid and Barcelona, you should check out the La Central bookshops in both cities (http://www.lacentral.com/). I've only been to the one in Barcelona and loved it, but my boyfriend has been to the one in Madrid as well and brought me back some amazing books :-). I bet they're both worth a visit. Have fun on your trips!

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      1. Thanks so much for the tip! Will definitely try to go to one of them.

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    4. I can't blog about my work life at all due to confidentiality, which is sad because it could be really interesting. But so it is. Good luck with juggling your different roles.

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      1. I know, this is true of people in a wide range of professions.

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    5. Barcelona is so great :) You should go to the Boqueria market on the main shopping street & get breakfast for sure. I really enjoyed the Park Guell when I was there (it's up a pretty big hill though). And I remember us going up a tower at the harbor to see the view which was pretty spectacular (but it does wobble in the wind). We also went for a train ride & then cable car ride to see the monastery at Montserrat & that was a nice day out but you need a whole day. The Sagrada is the big attraction but we were kind of disappointed because it was so expensive & there was so much scaffolding in the way so def worth checking the status on that before going in.

      Madrid - sounds weird but the central train station has like a mini foresty/waterfall bit in its centre and there were turtles when I went so that was cool. Everyone is going to tell you to go to the Prado and you should because it's amazing. The one thing I don't recommend is taking a bus tour - worst city tour I've ever had.

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      1. Thanks for the tips - the turtles sound super cute :D I think that's the station I'll be arriving at from Barcelona, so I'll be sure to check them out. Montserrat sounds wonderful but sadly I don't think I'll have enough time on this trip.

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    6. Yeah, keeping my surname redacted and my location vague gives me that same peace of mind. I support you, madam!

      Have a wonderful time in Spain when you go -- can't wait to hear all about it! I have family in Spain, living about an hour from Madrid, and one of these days I will get across the pond to visit them. So be sure to take good notes of any bookish places you discover in Barcelona or Madrid, so that I can also try them out! :)

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      1. You should also get across the pond to visit me and all your other lovely UK blogging friends! Just saying :P

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    7. I tell all and have never felt any repercussions in 8 years. Too late to be more reticent now.

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      1. We've already talked about this so all I'll say is thanks so much for listening (again).

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    8. I think most of my blogging and privacy issues are do to my age. I was younger when the internet started to be a thing and all the advice we got at that time was to make pseudonyms and keep our identities vague. Then the Facebook arrived and the next generation was willing to share everything! I still feel like I should keep some things to myself. I do have private accounts where I share more.

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      1. For me it was easier when I was younger because there was no Adult Job World to think about. Nobody cares what a random student is saying, but all the unspoken rules of the professional world complicate things now. I do often come across young people who openly resist FB's real name policy and everything that comes with it, though. Tumblr's demographics skew young, and the culture there seems to favour anonymous monikers based on interests or song lyrics or whatever, which is exactly what being online was like for me as a teen (the good old days of IRC, message boards and livejournal :P).

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    9. You have been very busy! How awesome you will get to dress up as the Queen of Hearts! I know what you mean about wanting to keep library and blog stuff separate. My coworkers know I blog and a couple of them started following me last year and and while I never talked much about my library since it is a law library, I did mention events now and then. Since coworkers began reading regularly however, I hardly ever mention anything except in the most general way.

      Your summer vacation plans sound marvelous!

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      1. I also have a few co-workers who know about this place (mostly because they follow me on Twitter), but that doesn't worry me anywhere near as much as the general public knowing about it. It would be good to have a friends-only place for venting on really horrible days, though :P

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    Thank you so much for taking the time to comment - interaction is one of my favourite things about blogging and a huge part of what keeps me going.