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Monday, December 26, 2011
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Friday, December 23, 2011
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Wednesday, December 21, 2011
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Because she was tired of living in London among clever people, Miss Rhoda Harting, a reserved yet moderately successful novelist in the thirty-third year of her age, retired during one November to a cottage in Buckinghamshire. Nor did she wish to marry.However, in what proved to be a trend in the collection, the story sets out to prove its protagonist wrong (or at least to change her mind). As charming as “The Little Christmas Tree” is, it’s also the kind of story I can’t help but imagine other possibilities for: how would E.M. Delafield have written it, for example? I can’t say enough times that there’s nothing whatsoever wrong with love stories, or that I don’t believe that romance weakens or compromises the integrity of female characters. But because I can’t think of a single story that does feature a thirty-something single woman enjoying Christmas on her own, being contended, and not secretly feeling lonely and empty and dead inside, I can’t help but wish “The Little Christmas Tree” had been that kind of story.
‘I dislike fuss, noise, worry, and all the other accidents, which, so many friends tell me, attend the married state,’ she said. ‘I like being alone. I like my work. Why should I marry?’
‘You are unnatural, Rhoda,’ protested her friends.
‘Possibly, but at least I am cheerful,’ retorted Miss Harting. ‘Which,’ she added (but this was to herself), ‘is more than can be said of most of you.’
‘Yes, I do hate you,’ said Lillian. ‘But I don’t hate you because I’m jealous of you. I hate you because you used to be Ian’s wife. Even if you were the sort of woman I could like, I should still hate you, and detest you coming to stay here, because you used to be Ian’s wife.’ (…)I dearly wish “More Than Kind” had gone for some kind of middle ground rather than such a prescriptive solution. There are couples out there who get along perfectly well with ex-partners without anyone suffering discomfort or awkwardness, and this broad brush approach confines them all to the realm of “unnaturalness”.
‘You and your friends try to pretend everything’s simple and easy on the surface when really they’re all violent and bitter. It isn’t natural for you to be here, that’s why I hate it so.’
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Monday, December 19, 2011
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Anne wondered whether it ever occurred to [Captain Wentworth] now, to question the justness of his own previous opinion as to the universal felicity and advantage of firmness of character; and whether it might not strike him that, like all other qualities of the mind, it should have its proportions and limits. She thought it could scarcely escape him to feel that a persuadable temper might sometimes be as much in favour of happiness as a very resolute character.There isn’t enough appreciation for women like Anne; women who meet others halfway, who get what they want without giving up their social world, and who are nevertheless never portrayed as weak. Anne doesn’t want to go against society not because she lacks courage, but because she does value the opinion of people who matter to her, because if possible she wants to preserve these connections and find her way without giving up things that also matter to her.
Today is the 236th anniversary of Jane Austen’s birth; the date, along with the 200th anniversary of the publication of Sense and Sensibility, was one of the motivators for Advent with Austen. It’s still not too late to join us for the celebrations. You can do so by reading and reviewing something Austenesque or by joining the fourth and final Twitter movie night this Sunday.They had no conversation together, no intercourse but what the commonest civility required. Once so much to each other! Now nothing! There had been a time, when of all the large party now filling the drawing-room at Uppercross, they would have found it most difficult to cease to speak to one another. With the exception, perhaps, of Admiral and Mrs Croft, who seemed particularly attached and happy, (Anne could allow no other exceptions even among the married couples), there could have been no two hearts so open, no tastes so similar, no feelings so in unison, no countenances so beloved. Now they were as strangers; nay, worse than strangers, for they could never become acquainted. It was a perpetual estrangement.They read it too (many thanks to Alex for letting me borrow her formatted link list): The Sleepless Reader, Fyrefly’s Book Blog, The Blue Stocking Society, Dot Scribbles, The Literate Mother, Jayne’s Books, The Literary Stew, Open Mind, Insert Book, A Guy’s Moleskin Notebook, Just Books, Rebecca Reads, All Consuming Books, Fashion Piranha, Presenting Lenore, Alita Reads, Worthwhile Books, Lesley’s Book Nook, The Book Pirate, Fingers and Prose, Desperate Reader, You’ve GOTTA Read This, Adventures in Reading, MariReads, Truth, Beauty, Freedom and Books, Stella Matutina, Lost in Books, Reading Reflections, My Random Acts of Reading, Stacy’s Books, The Literary Omnivore, Books. Lists. Life., Tony’s Reading List, A Striped Armchair, Lit Endeavors, Aneca’s World, Bookworm Nation, Shelf Love, Diary of an Eccentric, The Bookworm Chronicles
When the evening was over, Anne could not but be amused at the idea of her coming to Lyme to preach patience and resignation to a young man whom she had never seen before; nor could she help fearing, on more serious reflection, that, like many other great moralists and preachers, she had been eloquent on a point in which her own conduct would ill bear examination.
Anne found Captain Benwick getting near her, as soon as they were all fairly in the street. Their conversation the preceding evening did not disincline him to seek her again; and they walked together some time, talking as before of Mr Scott and Lord Byron, and still as unable as before, and as unable as any other two readers, to think exactly alike of the merits of either, till something occasioned an almost general change amongst their party, and instead of Captain Benwick, she had Captain Harville by her side.
There, he had learnt to distinguish between the steadiness of principle and the obstinacy of self-will, between the darings of heedlessness and the resolution of a collected mind. There he had seen everything to exalt in his estimation the woman he had lost; and there begun to deplore the pride, the folly, the madness of resentment, which had kept him from trying to regain her when thrown in his way.
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Friday, December 16, 2011
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Thursday, December 15, 2011
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