The Sunday Salon – Life Beyond Books

The title of this post is perhaps slightly misleading, as a lot of what I want to tell you is in fact quite bookish in nature. But there will also be some general chatting involved, so I thought it was a fitting title regardless. In a Twitter conversation with fellow bloggers Iris and Verity the other day, we all vowed to never feel guilty for posting off-topic posts on our book blogs; books are a huge part of all our lives and that will probably shine through in every posts, but everyone feels like chatting about other things every now and again, and there are fortunately no set blogging rules that dictate how to Do It Right. In fact, according to the comments to this post over at Simon’s blog, blog readers do appreciate the occasional general chattiness and life updates. I know I’ve been a reviews-on-weekdays-and-one-essay-post-on-weekends sort of blogger for a long time now, but that’s likely to change now that my life is so different than it was a few months ago.
You’ll most likely have noticed some changes in how I blog ever since I returned from my break, the most obvious of all being a decrease in my frequency of posting. Unlike what I was expecting, though, this isn’t necessarily because I have less time to read as a graduate student than I did when I was working full-time. Quite a lot of reading gets done on my 40 minute commute to university, for example, as well as during lunch break or even between lectures (not really knowing anyone does have its bright side, ha). But I have to organise my time differently now; and if I have more reading time, on the other hand I certainly have far less computer time, which sadly forces me to be a less prolific poster and commenter. Most of you know all about the cycle of guilt and inadequacy that befalls a blogger who feels they can no longer keep up with the community, so I won’t bore you with the details; suffice to say that I’m very very sorry to be neglecting so many of your lovely blogs lately, and that I will continue to try and do my best.

(Some more recent book acquisitions. Oh dear. Yes, some of those are also on the previous picture, but never fear: I have not yet reached the point of losing track of what I have and buying duplicates. The keyword here probably being yet.)
What I have decided to do is stop posting about every single book I read, and instead focus only on those that elicit a strong response in me, be it a positive or negative one. Of course, this isn’t always easy to predict – who guarantees I won’t read five or six remarkable books in a row and want to tell you about them all? I love sharing my thoughts on what I read, but I’m trying to get used to the idea of just letting go sometimes – and if that means never writing about some books at all, so be it. The choice was between consciously limiting myself or risking burn-out, and I need not tell you which one I'd prefer.
So, you wonder, what have I been up to besides reading and blogging? Grad school assignments are keeping me pretty busy at the moment, but I did have time for some weekends away, plenty of visits to bookshops (I so need new shelves. By which I mean I need a shelf, period), and even some bookish events. As part of the Manchester Literature Festival, I went to a talk by Spanish comics creator Miguelanxo Prado, who spoke passionately about all the artistic potential of the medium and told humours life stories in-between. An unintentional funny moment came when he couldn’t remember the name of the famous British comics writer he had worked with in the past – that happens to be Neil Gaiman, and I was amused because I was fairly sure he was the reason why 80% of the audience had first heard of Prado (myself included). I regret not having written a more detailed account of the event, but fortunately this post at the official festival blog took the words off my mouth.

(Enjoying an autumn day in the Peak District)
Also as part of the literature festival, I got to spend a Sunday with the Moomins at a lovely event where Tove Jansson’s niece Sophia spoke at length about her aunt’s work. Though the focus of the event was the Moomin stories and not Jansoon’s books for adults, the majority of the audience was in fact adult – some who likely grew up with the Moomin stories, and others like myself who discovered them later on. This made me quite happy, as I always enjoy seeing adults be unapologetically enthusiastic about children’s literature.
The very charming Sophia Jansson spoke eloquently about the humour, subtlety, gentleness and wisdom of Tove’s work, and as a result made me want to pick up my next Moomins book sooner rather than later. She also mentioned that she always gets asked if the fact that she shares a name with the little girl in The Summer Book is in any way significant – her answer was that her aunt’s writing is of course fictional, but also intensely personal, so it could be that there’s something of her in that little girl. At any rate, she does have childhood memories of summers spent in tiny Finnish islands, which I very much envy her as they sound absolutely gorgeous.

Sophia Jansson spoke a little about the many unconventional decisions that marked her aunt’s life: in the early twentieth century, Tove Jansson decided to devote her life to the arts instead of forming a family like most women of her generation (and yes, it is sad that for so many it was a question of either/or). Furthermore, later in life she fell in love with a woman, a fellow artist, and bravely lived with her as a couple at a time when homosexuality was illegal. All this made me long to read a biography of her; a like-minded member of the audience asked Sophia if one was available, and she said there is one in Swedish, but it hasn’t yet been translated into English. Fingers crossed that it does get translated at some point.

Last but not least, I hope those of you who celebrate it have a wonderful Halloween. If not, have a happy Sunday anyway!

I applaud you for your decisions! For as long as I've been blogging, I've written a review on every single book I've read, and I can feel myself getting tired. At some point, I may adopt your strategy. I also love it when bloggers talk about something besides books...it allows us to get to know the blogger behind the blog!
ReplyDeleteYeah. Sometimes we all need to go "off topic" :-) I love your stash though- yay, Possession!! :-) I hope you enjoy it and your other books.
ReplyDeleteJust as the Festival blog took the words out of your mouth, so did Sandy take the words out of mine! I agree with her in all, even if I can't quite [as of yet?] carry out these sentiments on my blog!
ReplyDeleteSandy: I must say that despite the occasional guilt (it's silly, but I feel like I'm cheating the books I never post about :P) it's quite a liberating strategy! And I totally agree about off-topic posts :)
ReplyDeleteMarie: I've already read Possession and it's one of my all-time favourite books - but I'd read a library copy, and so I couldn't resist this gorgeous hardcover edition! It's in perfect condition and it cost 50p :D
Jill: If I can do it, you all can ;) However, I feel I shouldn't encourage you too much because I selfishly don't want you or Sandy to post less frequently :P
ReplyDeleteI really, really try to review or talk about each book I read (which was my goal when I started my blog), but sometimes I just don't have enough to say or I let it go so long I forget to post or, well, life gets in the way.
ReplyDeleteNo guilt, my friend -- blogging shouldn't add that kind of stress, especially now that you're in grad school.
Post what you want and when you want.
I love off-topic posts! Gives me a glimpse into people's lives and satisfies my curiosity;) It must be so hard to walk past bookshops and not get anything, I totally understand! There must be a lot of secondhand/charity shops in Manchester.
ReplyDeleteI ADORE The Moomins. Crazy about them.
ReplyDeleteI feel less confined and guilty by blogging now that I blog less and refuse to follow any set routine; I miss it more as a result, which is the best incentive to post.
Beth F: Thank you for that, as I think I needed to hear it! Guilt is silly but hard to let go of; however, I promise I'll do my best :P
ReplyDeleteSakura: There are far too many! I might have to ban myself from going in at some point :P
Claire, I love your no-obligations approach! I'm trying my best to adopt it myself.
Whenever I do a non-bookish post, I always apologize or disclaim it. Which is silly because we can write about whatever we want.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad to see you back in whatever form you choose.
I think a lot of us are shifting around and rethinking the way we do things. I think you were in the process of moving at the time (can't remember exactly) but awhile back I decided to stop reviewing everything I read too, though I've been putting up those TV Book Reviews at the end of each month with my thoughts in (very) brief.
ReplyDeleteI hope you find a good pattern that works for you Ana! And we'll be here to read. No guilt cycles. :)
I'm in the throes of a guilty blogger crisis at the moment, too. Wish I'd been on twitter for that conversation!! In the process of rethinking and trying to embrace the no guilt philosophy. We can only do so much...
ReplyDeleteWhat an interesting way to narrow down your posts… I like it!
ReplyDeleteHappy Halloween!
I'm also a big fan off "off topic" posts!
ReplyDeleteI think you've come up with a great way to continue sharing your bookish thoughts with us without the burnout. Posting only about those books which make you feel passionate is a great way to go! No guilty feelings involved! :)
I'm excited for you after seeing "The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society" in your stack! Enjoy it!
Happy Halloween!
That seems like a sensible decision. I have to come to a similar decision soon, seeing as I have 20+ books still to write about. Like I said before, I actually love more personal posts. Your comment at Savidge Reads took the words right out of my mouth.
ReplyDeleteI'm quite jealous that you got to hear Sofia Jansson speak, even if I have yet to pick up an actual Moomin book. I'm beyond excited to get started on one.. And that comment on non-specified genders is really interesting!
And as you know I feel a similar guilt, it is hard to let go isn't it? Although I have found that I do understand when others are busy or don't have the time, so why do I feel so bad about doing it myself?
I think it makes perfect sense to focus on writing about the books that really mean something to you. Also, sounds like you have been awful busy, with a lot of fun events!
ReplyDeleteThat's so interesting about Tove Jansson. I've always wanted to read her books but haven't yet. Maybe I'll buy one last book before my self-imposed book-buying ban.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you're not feeling guilty about reducing the frequency of your posts. Often times as bloggers, we feel so much guilt about not posting and commenting much when our lives are getting hectic. It doesn't matter how often you post, we're still here for you! :-)
Have a great week.
I say do what you want with your own blog. That's the whole point, one of them anyway.
ReplyDeleteI do review every book I read, if I read it through to the end. But I don't feel I have to write a full review every time. Sometimes, if I just have a paragraph or two of comments that's all I write.
I think it was last year, maybe last spring, when I decided to stop trying to write a full, proper review of everything. Instead, I say whatever it is I want to say, even if that ends up being a post that uses the book as an excuse to spend time writing about something else.
But, except for Sunday Salon, I do keep my focus on books. For me, book blogs have replaced the Sunday Book Review section of the local newspaper. I love reading about books.
Michelle: It may be silly, but I completely understand the urge to be apologetic. We all need to stop though :P
ReplyDeleteAmanda: I'm laughing because I've just read Gavin's Sunday Salon post and she made the exact same resolution :P You're right, it seems that a lot of us are rethinking how we blog. Hopefully this will lead to less stress and more happiness all around :P
JoAnn: Yes, exactly! The funny thing is that I know nobody but myself expects me to do more, but knowing this doesn't always help.
Clare, thank you and likewise!
Kate: I think I really will enjoy Guernsey - it sounds like a charming book! Happy Halloween to you too :)
Iris: I often wonder the same. I wish I knew why and I wish I could stop! I hope you do pick up a Moomin book soon - I've only read one to date, but it was an absolute delight.
Amy: I've been busy having fun, but I'm about getting busy writing a billion essays, which isn't quite as nice :P
Vasilly: Well, I wouldn't say I feel no guilt, but I'm trying to cope ;) Thank you for being here for me anyway! You guys are always so supportive and understanding.
C.B. James: I'm considering doing what you or Amanda do, and just write a paragraph or two about those books I don't get around to reviewing in full. I'll give it a try, but I don't want to feel guilty if I don't get around to doing even that :P Anyway, I also love reading about books more than anything else, so whatever happens with my blog they'll continue to be my main focus! I just hope you'll all bear with me if I try something a little different every now and then ;)
I think the biggest thing for me with blogging and grad school was remembering that blogging is something to enjoy, something that should make me happy, and realizing that it's ok to set limits. I'd only do one review a week to lighten some of the pressure, and that's one thing that helped.
ReplyDeleteBut, it seems like you're doing great - the pictures you posted are just lovely. Good luck finding a bookshelf :)
I've been feeling that guilt too lately as life as been taking me away from blogging. I'm still trying to find a pattern that works for me, but for now I'm posting when I can and trying not to worry about it.
ReplyDeleteIt really looks like you are having a good time in your new life; I'm very jealous of the lit festivals and beautiful scenery! :)
Happy Halloween! I'm a little envious of how settled-down you seem to be in your new life - I'm still all in transition, and I don't even have a library card yet. HORRORS. :p The lit'rary events sound just amazing.
ReplyDeleteThe autumn photo is beautiful and I love getting a glimpse into the blogger's life!!
ReplyDeleteI ve read chesil beach and the dylan book as huge dylan fan ,read it and loved it ,nice pic of the peaks love walks when leaves are falling ,all the best stu
ReplyDeleteI think your strategy is a good one. I try to ease the pressure myself with "mini reviews" - I'm so likely to forget what I felt about something I've read that I really feel the need to write something down. Don't feel guilty, just do what suits you best. :)
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you're doing all sorts of fantastic things at the moment - clearly your away from the computer time is being spent wonderfully!
Grad school is a wonderful time, even though it can drive you nuts at times. I actually miss that phase of my life. :-) I love the fact that you used the challenge of having less online time to change your approach to book reviewing.
ReplyDeleteI love the books on your piles. By the way, my son and I read Leviathan. His review was, "This book is BAD ASS!" High praise from an 11-year-old boy!
I've always tended to review only the books that excite a strong reaction, so I think it's the right thing to do ;-)
ReplyDeleteThe question of how central gender is to identity is at the core of a science fiction book I just read and loved and am trying to review.
How funny that you got Burning Bright--I just started reading it today!
ReplyDeleteIt must have been a joy to hear Sophia Jansson and I, like you, would love to read a biography of Tove Jansson. I am glad you are "letting go" of the guilt and pressures of blogging about everything you read. Making that decision has made my time on the computer much more enjoyable. have a wonderful week, Ana!
ReplyDeleteTove Jansson is such a fascinating person. I hope, like you, that biography gets published in English sooner rather than later! In elementary school, a friend and I would sneak into the library during recess to read her Moomintroll series. I would love to re-read them now. I think it's really cool that most of the characters are of indeterminate gender. I don't remember noticing that when I was younger, which is maybe even more interesting.
ReplyDeleteYour new blogging resolutions sound good for you, Ana, and it sounds like you're adjusting well to your new and exciting life!
I love reading life updates! It makes the person behind the blog really come to life. Plus it's so nice to put a face, if you will, to the voice. :)
ReplyDeleteThe cycle of guilt... Now, that is the truth. I feel like I'm always having to say sorry for not visiting as often as I used to. I just wish I could find a way to freeze time so I could get caught up :)
ReplyDeleteAnd, I've never reviewed every book I read. I don't really have a method to which books get reviewed or not. I guess it's mainly if I do it pretty soon after I read the book it'll happen otherwise not. I've moved on to other books. ha.ha.
I loved this post and felt like I got to know a lot about what you are doing with your life outside of blogging, so I hope you do more of these. I also know what you mean about not wanting to write about every book you are reading. Sometimes it is just easier that way, and since sometimes I fell ambiguous about the books I have been reading, your strategy seems like a good one. Also, don't feel guilty about not visiting everyone as often as you's like, because sometimes life just ramps up, and there is just not time for everything!
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you have been incredibly busy lately. I think it great when book blogger include posts off topic. We all love seeing your new books, but it is also nice to know what is going on in your life. WOW...if everyone adopted your reviewing only books we liked, we'd have a lot fewer feeds to scroll through...LOL
ReplyDeleteHave a great week.
I love your idea of giving yourself permission to not review every book you read. I agree with you ... some books just aren't worth the energy.
ReplyDeleteAnd I felt freed when I decided to combine my personal and book blogs into one blog ... I didn't feel "pressure" to keep posting on both of them all the time. Now I can just post when the spirit moves ... and for whatever it moves me about.
Everytime a post comes from you I am happy. Less posts just means I'll have to be extra special grateful for the ones you give us. :)
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you're having enough reading time even if you can't write about everything, though as one of your adoring readers I want to know what you think about everything you read.
I'll post a review after I've finished reading a book, but that's because my reading is slow and I can only read one/two books a week. :P I absolutely love it when bookbloggers share a bit of their life with us besides all the book talks and reviews. I love to know more about the bloggers behind those lovely posts! :)
ReplyDeleteAnd you don't have to feel guilty at all, Ana! Just post whenever you can, for I definitely wouldn't want you to suffer a burn out and give up blogging! And I'm definitely with Amy about having to be extra grateful for all the posts you give us. :)
I'm glad you're finding time to read and explore!
ReplyDeleteI'm getting tired of posting about every book I read, but for now I'm still telling myself I'll eventually write the posts. Just not right now. :-D
It's always tough to get the balance right. The online life really does become a second life and it isn't always compatible with the first, original one! I'd love to go to the Manchester Literary Festival one day, it always has such a good programme. And I really need to read more Tove Jansson!
ReplyDeleteI like the idea of only writing about knock out books - I decided early on that I didn't want to waste time on the millions of books I read that I didn't really want to talk about. My blog has evolved more away from books but I enjoy it more...
ReplyDeleteMoomins are wonderful - do you have any pictures of that day?!
What a great post! I'm not really much of a theme blogger. Plus I like to know what goes on in other people's lives as well as the books, so blog away any way you like!
ReplyDeleteI lived in Finland for a year and so of course the Moomin were everywhere! I hadn't realized Jansson was so interesting herself, though, but of course she would have had to have been. I will be looking for the bio!
I don't think I have to tell you how much I love your off-topic posts, do I? :D
ReplyDeleteAnd yay!!!! You got a copy of Half-Minute Horrors! :D Oh Ana, I can't even begin to tell you how much fun we had with that book!!!! Thank you again! And I'm dying to hear what you think of Chronicles--I've wanted to read that for ages and yet I'm a bit reluctant, too.
And wow...I've been eager to read some of the Moomin stories ever since you reviewed one of the books, but after reading this post I'm not sure I can wait for one of the books to come up on paperbackswap. Tove Jannson just sounds like she was quite an awesome person!
I was going to say that writing characters without specific gender would be much easier and natural to do when writing in Finnish, because Finnish is one of those languages without even the distinction between he/she.
ReplyDeleteExcept duh, Tove Jansson wrote in Swedish, which does distinguish between at least he/she. I don´t know how fluent she would have been in Finnish, probably quite a lot, maybe that was an influence as well. A really different languages makes one think harder about a lot of things one takes for granted like gender and plurals and language cases and things one can just not say ( because there is no way to say it) in a particular language but can say in another. Some literary experiments will be much more natural in some languages!
Glad to hear that you are adjusting to your life in a new place and as a graduate student. I'm glad to hear that you have plenty of time to read. I think your strategy of only writing about books that really resonate with you is a good one. I think I might consider doing that as well. At the moment I have too few posts as it is so we'll see!
ReplyDeleteLovely post Ana. I'm glad to hear graduate school is going well and reading for pleasure is getting done. *smile* Continue to post about your life, it makes us happy.
ReplyDeleteOMG Ana, those pictures that you posted of all of your new books just filled me with warm fuzzies :D I love that you're filling the new place with new books....I want to come visit you and see everything so BAD!!!
ReplyDeleteAnd maybe we should start a fund to have that Tove Jansson autobiography translated :p I would seriously love to read that!!! The talk with her niece just sounds like it was amazing!!!
I enjoyed reading about the talk of Sophia Jansson that you attended, Ana! It seems to have been a wonderful occasion. Hope Tove Jansson's biography gets translated into English.
ReplyDeleteI loved that picture of an autumn day that you have posted - it is so beautiful!
I also liked very much the picture of your recent book acquisitions. I loved your comment "I have not yet reached the point of losing track of what I have and buying duplicates" :) I remember once I went to the bookstore and got a copy of 'Anna Karenina' and after coming back home realized that I have a copy of another edition at home! Sometimes I buy duplicates because I like the edition I see at the bookstore, but this time I had bought it without realizing I had a copy. It is fun being a book buyer - sometimes one does funny things like this :)
You have been super busy! I think you've come up with a great solution for your blog - after all, we all know that your schooling is far more important than your blog.
ReplyDeleteI read a very few books in a month, what with life being hectic with a baby and all. But it is really commendable that you have taken the decision, I am not yet upto it :)
ReplyDeleteThat is a very beautiful pic!
I completely understand the liberating feeling that comes with deciding not to write about every book. While I'd love to hear about everything, I am most interested in the ones with a strong response! I love what you have to share whenever you get to share it. Thanks for not quitting.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you had a wonderful time at the festival. It must have been great to hear Sophia Jansson tell about Tove. As a Finn Moomins have always been part of my life, though to be honest, I did not especially like them as a child!
ReplyDeleteI just checked our library catalogue and there is at least one book about Tove Jansson published in English: Tove Jansson by W. Glyn Jones (Boston: Twayne Publishers, 1984)
And here is a good shorter biographical text about her from the Finniah National Biography website: http://www.kansallisbiografia.fi/english/?id=1395
What Teresa said above about the Finnish language not distinguishing between he and she is correct. Finnish is in many respects (but not totally) a rather gender neutral language. So, if a foreigner gets his/her 3. person singular pronouns all mixed up when speaking English that might well be a Finn! ;)
Good luck with your school work!
Greetings from the Moominland :),
Tiina
I actually find myself more drawn to the personal posts lately--whether they be bookish or not. I think that's because of the junction I'm at in my own life--only reading a little, only posting bookish things maybe twice a week, and definitely not seeking to add any more books to my TBR list (dang you people!!). So, bring it on. Actually, I've enjoyed your Tumblr posts even though I feel kind of stalkerish by not creating an account so I can comment! ;)
ReplyDeleteI'm impressed by how much extra reading time you have! In my grad school studies there's on way I could have read for pleasure let alone blogged about it! But I am curious about these essays I've heard you talking about on twitter. Are they personal or for class??
Glad all's going well with you, Ana!
That's so funny, I used to have some Moomins books, but they were in Polish so called Muminki. I never connected them to Tove Jansson. Ha ha.
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear that you're having a good time and fitting in some reading too. I'm all for personal posts too - I've been trying to go down that same road.
I don't even know where to begin here, you've covered a lot of fantastic topics in one blog post!
ReplyDeleteBut I will say that I do like knowing the blogger behind the books she/he reads. But, how much personal information to share is really up to every individual blogger.
I am always having a hard time finding enough time to do all that I want to do (don't we all), and lately I've been re-thinking my part in the blogging world!
I love off topic posts, but feel that I'm terrible at writing about non-bookish things in an exciting way. I'll keep trying though :) And I know that feeling of guilt at not keeping up with the community well, if only I could fit more commenting and reading in somewhere.
ReplyDeleteI completely love all your posts and I sympathise with your worries about posting and commenting -- I've been neglecting my blog (and others') too much lately. But it happens...
ReplyDeleteDid you take that photo of the steps and the autumn leaves? Absolutely GORGEOUS. Made my day.
Hi Ana, I go off topic all the time but that's because my blog is a mixture of everything in my life. LOL. I don't review every book that I read and usually you won't hear from me for books that I don't like. Oh gosh, I love those piles of books you posted here! And that autumn pic is simply lovely!
ReplyDelete"What I have decided to do is stop posting about every single book I read, and instead focus only on those that elicit a strong response in me, be it a positive or negative one." – Sometimes I wish more people would do this! I think reviews about books that elicited a strong reaction in their reviewer are the best. I know how hard it is to set limits for yourself, and how much harder it is to stick to those limits without feeling bad! I think you're doing a great job :)
ReplyDeleteHey Ana, I have just read this in trying to catch up with 'the community' :). Good luck with the new school. I think non-bookish posts are perfectly fine. I enjoyed reading this post and hope there's more such as this in the future. I'm myself struggling to keep up with my blog (as you can probably see by the lack of updates!) but I'm going to keep it running. Lucky I just don't read as fast as you, so I can still talk about every book I read (though I have a backlog of 4-5 books right now.. uum..)
ReplyDeleteI've had to re-structure the way I blog a few times since I first started book blogging, mostly in response to major life changes. I've resolved that my main priority is to share those books that I really want to write about, rather than turn my blogging into something akin to homework.
ReplyDeleteI am always blown away by the consideration and analysis that you put into your posts. There's nothing to regret if you find you haven't as much computer time to discuss every book you read, the ones you do post about keep us well fed :)